As part of my work with the Vintage Pamperbox and my photography company Betty Bee Ive been lucky enough to be involved in some truly scrumptious nuptials.
|Lets go down the wedding ideas rabbit hole|
Having recently written a book called "The Handmade wedding" I want to share with you my ideas for how to get the wedding of your dreams, not the prescribed version churned out by the wedding industry.
|Its your day-have it your way|
First things first step away from the standard wedding magazines/websites. Sure these may be helpful once you have decided on your theme but if you nose dive into a pile of generic bridal fodder the moment you set a date the chances are your individuality will be trampled underfoot.
Articles telling you how "understated make up is the only way on your wedding day' and phrases like "simple elegance" will brainwash you into thinking that what should be the most visually unique day of your life should look like a carbon copy of a million other events.
To tap into what you like create mood boards from anything but wedding magazines.
Tear pictures from fashion mags, art postcards, swatches of fabric, reels of ribbon and don't just stick to visuals. Think of poems or music lyrics which you love.Who are your style icons? your favourite fairytale? Once these are created you will see the true essence of who you and your partner are.
|Delicious wedding ideas|
Turning dreams into reality
Once you have created your mood boards spend some time together looking at them and start to refine your ideas. If its all too confusing break it down to the five images which are calling you the most. Remember you don't have to be too literal here, the idea is to be inspired.
|Be bold and beautiful-who says brides can only wear white|
Can't stop looking at a dreamy picture of Stevie Nicks on the front cover of Rumours then perhaps your theme can be ethereal with top hats featuring lots of floaty fabrics.
|Turn your dreams into reality|
If you are dotty about polka dots maybe these can be worked into your bridesmaids outfits and the groom and ushers tie. Once you realise that you don't have to compromise it becomes exciting and less alien.
If you are not usually traditional in your outlook or a follower of the pack why start now?
|Everything from fairytales to poetry can inspire|
How to get the most bang for your buck
It may seem at first that going down the generic wedding route is cheaper. The whole wedding industry can seem to be geared to white frocks, fruit cakes and hired suits but with some careful planning you can create some very strong visuals without going wildly over budget.
|Don't like ivory how about eau de nil|
A great example of this are the beautiful cakes used to illustrate this feature.
Created by the amazing Kiss And Bake Up this collection of cakes were called Wonderland and a themed dessert table from them including display pieces and set up service to feed 20 people start at £220, amazing eh.Imagine your reception guests walking in to these!
|The amazing Kiss and Bake up turning wedding dreams into reality with their breathtaking confections|
With a little research you can find local bakers, dressmakers and florists who are no doubt bored witless churning out the same old stuff week in,week out and will jump at the chance to collaborate on interesting ideas.
|Alice in wonderland themed fancies-who needs fruitcake|
In a saturated market standing out from the crowd is the life's blood of the wedding industry. Be sure to arrange with your wedding photographer that you can pass on photographs of all elements for the suppliers to use afterwards.
If they are envisaging that your cake/flowers/dress is going to bring an edgy creative element to their portfolio they will be even more enthusiastic and prepared to go that extra mile to help you realise your vision.
|Who says the groom has to be suited and booted|
|Let your individuality shine through|
Ive written before how even the most expert crafters can go into a wedding coma as soon as the engagement ring is on there finger. Forgetting all the amazing skills they possess, which can be utilised to help create the perfect day. Making elements for your wedding can not only save money but guarantee no one else will have the same.
|Make every element unique from cake design to music choice|
When planning your big day make a list of what your crafting talents are, and also who in your circle of friends and family is also creative.
When my lovely friend Lilly got married she asked me to make tea cup candles for every table. As I had plenty of notice I was able to source blue toile china tea cups which matched her wedding theme. These were my wedding gift to her and the smell of the scented wax filled the whole reception.
|Don't let others peck away at your choices-its your wedding-own it!|
I hope you have enjoyed this first wedding inspiration feature. If you are a supplier of unique wedding items or you have some great wedding ideas that you perhaps used on your own big day please get in touch here
'Wonderland' cakes by Kiss And Bake Up
Photography by Alex Skennerton
Models: Laura Mai, Johanna Michelle, Tamer Latif, Laura Mai, Sarah Downham
Make Up by Bonnie Deponeo
Props and cakery: Kiss & Bake Up
Edits: Bekki Cooke
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