Thursday, 4 February 2016

The Alternative and Burlesque Fair-This weekend

Hi everyone-just a short post to let you know that I will be at the Alternative and Burlesque fair at the Ritz in Manchester this Saturday (6th Feb) with the  Nicky Rockets brand.



I've never attended this event before but it looks all kinds of amazing.Here are just some of the things going on:






Up to 70 exhibitor stalls
Full programme of entertainment throughout
Burlesque, Twisted Cabaret, Aerial Acts and  DJ's
Bars & Seated Social Areas
Quality Vintage Themed Dining by Lil's Parlour

Photo Booth with Instant Picture Printing
And of course me and Nicky will be there will our stand, we have got new designs, as well as all the classics and it would be amazing if you came to say hello.






Tickets and more information can be found here

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Wednesday, 3 February 2016

How To Handle Rejection


Rejection-it’s a funny old thing. Of all the emotions its one we often associate with youth, feelings of childhood rejection from parents has informed many a therapy session and who of us could ever forget the rejection of that first break up?
Sadly rejection isn’t always consigned to memories, it can attack you as a fully formed adult and when it does wow it’s a shocker.
Rejection is such a bitch of an emotion and can take you completely by surprise. One minute you are basking in the smug feeling of “I've got this” the next you are crying big salty tears because you feel like you are back at school and no one will sit with you at break time.
Like most people I have suffered my fair share of both personal and professional rejection (even over the last year) and have handled it in various ways, some good, some bad and some very ugly and because I like to think I’m not alone in the loser stakes thought I would tell you how I deal with the uninvited kick in the tits.

Step One-Accept that it hurts like hell



Whether its being let go at work, being frozen out of a friendship group or being dumped by a lover its fine to acknowledge that being rejected is really hurtful. You will get past it, you will survive but in the immediate aftermath it’s OK to just feel absolutely awful.

Step Two-Acknowledge the part you played



Its very easy when you are rejected to put the blame entirely at someone elses feet. To paint a picture of passivity where it just “happened” to you but sometimes that isn’t the case. If you are never invited to go for after work drinks is it because you have never expressed any interest? or when asked before were you a bit dismissive? If you suddenly find yourself on the outside of a group you once felt close to have you changed? If your significant other leaves was it really such a shock? Were there signs you just didn’t want to see? 

Step Three-Allow yourself an ego boost



When you are feeling thin skinned its easy to wallow in the negative and allow the inner critic to take hold.Often the fastest way to get over rejection is to remind yourself that you are still a very welcome addition to many peoples world. One professional knock back doesn’t cancel out all your other successes; whilst one friend may cold shoulder you others still love your company. Seek out some positive affirmations. A glass of wine with a good mate or a hug from your child can quickly remind you that you may be disposable to some but to others you are very precious.

Step Four-Stop running towards the source of your pain



This is something I have had to have a few stern words with myself about. Being rejected can leave you baffled and you can keep trying to make sense of it by returning to the source. This is rarely a good move. If someone doesn’t want you (a company, a friend, even a family member) and isn’t prepared to work it out then however hard it is you have to walk away. Don’t be an emotional masochist. The internet makes it far too easy for us to keep tabs on the source of our rejection, do yourself a favour clear the decks and look forward.

Step Five Accept you may never understand



This is the stage I have most grappled with. I’m a Capricorn I like answers all tied up in neat bow but more often than not there is just not a very good explanation. Even though you gave a perfect interview and were more than qualified sometimes someone else gets the job,even when you truly feel you have been a decent human being people decide they don’t want you in their world. The questioning and wondering will be your undoing. Let it go. If it helps think back to your past when you were rejected for things which left the way clear for beautiful opportunities, or remember when you thought you wanted something so badly that in hindsight would have been terrible. The universe has a way of looking after us and if you cant quite get down with that a netflix boxset and a family size of galaxy work wonders.

I will finish this with a great quote by Dita Von Tease which sums it up beautifully


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Brand New Limited edition Design  over at  Nicky Rockets


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Monday, 1 February 2016

Birthday Best-What I got for my birthday




I've recently had a birthday and received some fantastic gifts. I'm always compiling wishlists on here so thought it would be nice to share some of my lovely presents with you guys.I know lots of you share my taste and if you are as nosy as I am its always nice to see this kind of stuff.I feel I must add that this isn't a show off post, I know I am very blessed and take none of the lovely things in my life for granted, more of a happy share.

The White Pepper Moon Pink Clutch Bag Buy Here


I am so influenced by the moons cycle. I must be part werewolf as along with the animals I become incredibly skittish around a full moon.The recent Leo moon has played havoc with my moods.So I guess its fair to say I have more than a little interest in that milky white face in the sky.Anyone who knows me will also be aware of my penchant for pink glitter. All these facts collide like planets to make this pink glitter moon clutch the most perfect accessory for me ever.

On a wick and a prayer China garden Geranium patchouli candle Buy here
On a wick and a prayer
Geranium is my all time favourite smell and I also love patchouli despite its bad reputation as being something hippies and bikers use to cover up the smell of sweat.This beautiful candle created by Derbyshire based candle company "On a wick and a prayer" combines the two-total joy
Aroma Expert and  Perfumer Huib describes this candles scent as a  "perfume  built around a traditional tea rose accord, with a strong top note of geranium for freshness, a fruity rose note in its heart and sensual patchouli to give extra depth in the fond of the note" sounds good to me and it definitely smells amazing. With its sugar pink candle holder which features a Milton inspired blossom design it also looks so delicate and pretty and it has 40 hours burning time. I  have been burning this on my desk when I blog and its filled the whole room with the most gorgeous smell.




Pets Rock Gaga and Jacko mugs Buy here

Animals dressed up in outfits are maybe one of my favourite things. Mister Truffles is totally disinterested in any form of costume (I often wonder if he is really a pug) and the cats would rip my face off if I came at them with a bonnet. To this end my drag queen pet thirst has to be quenched in other ways and my sister Grainne has found just the thing. No your eyes do not deceive you this is Lady GaGa as a rabbit and Micheal Jackson as a dog. Its too awesome for words.

I wish I was a unicorn notebook Buy Here 


It seems both my sisters know me oh too well as my other sister Celeste brought me a unicorn pug notebook-my stationary obsession never wavers and my love of pugs will never die. Unicorn styling is just the icing on the birthday cake.Also how much like Mister Truffles does this unicorn wannabee look?

Ceramic Pug Vase Buy here




I first saw a vase like this at our day at the Pug Rescue garden party last year. I wanted it so badly but they aren't cheap and you know the life of a writer bum means funds arent always available so Nicky promised me he would get me one for my birthday. I had all but forgotten about it until I opened it but its as amazing as I remembered. Eventually I want to get a second one so I can have one either side of the fireplace like the old fashioned Staffordshire dog ornaments you used to see. How jaunty does this little fella look with daffodils coming out of his head. 

Max factor Colour Exilir Starwars lipstick Buy here



I had heard rumblings of Starwars themed make up in the lead up to the Starwars movie but it was while we were actually watching it at Christmas that I saw the advert for the Max factor range and think I may have squeaked a little bit. As with anything like this its all become quite expensive and hard to get hold of so I was chuffed to bits to get one of the droid lipsticks. Its a really wearable goldy brown colour and you know, it says Starwars on the tube. Job done. 

Avon Magic Effects nail varnish Buy Here



I first fell in love with this range when I tried their Lace effect polish after my mum gave it to me. It gave such a pretty effect and was so easy to use and I must have raved about it as along with lots of other amazing stuff the mothership also  brought me a set of three more polishes from this range and I couldn't be happier. The purple glitter one on my nails is the liquid sequin one which is such a great glitter polish. I'm often impressed by Avon. I think their bronzer is one of the best on the market and their nail polishes are always amazing.



Citrine Crystal Buy here



My favourite gift was unsurprisingly from Nicky. Its the most beautiful citrine crystal which he brought from a lovely etsy store run by a welsh witch. I seem to be getting on very well with citrine recently and this rather pagan looking crystal is hung at my window above my desk. Its supposed to help cast out my mild blues and give me a real zingy energy and it definitely radiates with some lovely energy.

So those are a few of the lovely items I received on my birthday, what a lucky old Capricorn goat I am. 

Before I say bye bye I must tell you that on Saturday I will be at the Alternative and Burlesque fair waving the Nicky Rockets flag at the Ritz in Manchester 12-6pm. 

Along with 60 other exhibitors there will also be burlesque, twisted Cabaret, Ariel acts, a DJ and a bar! we will be launching a new design which will be a show exclusive. Hope to see you there. For more details click here

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Brand New Limited edition Design  over at  Nicky Rockets


We have a new tshirt available from the shop today "Northern Pirate" Our very first Tee with a back design- It's limited edition, so if you want one, hop on over to www.nickyrockets.com and get yourself one

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Thursday, 28 January 2016

Hello Dolly

The weather is so flat and grey I feel like I'm living in Mordor. The antidote to this is to ramp up the colours in my outfits which is why this sweatshirt by indie brand  Dolly Rockin it  is so perfect.
I originally brought this top when I went to the Girls day out in Liverpool in the summer but I brought the wrong size so had to mess around with a return and have only just got round to wearing it. Its bubble-gum pink with a black bow and what looks like the Sindy doll logo on the back-its kitsch perfection.

Dolly Rockin it-such a cute brand
I've worn this top of pop art delight with a striped skirt by Nexts plus size range its no longer available but Asos do something similar and my chunky shoes by Deichmann 



My pink patent bag is oversized and vulgar and my hairbow is the height of bad taste-I feel fantastic. 

Good taste is overrated
Postcards from the Edge-what else have I been up to this week


I've been having such a good week-we have launched a new tee-shirt design (our first one aimed at boys but its unisex really) as it has  a back print.Nicky hand printed the first run on Monday and they have nearly sold out-punk rock DIY screen printing rocks!


Ive also been channelling some fierce Durga  vibes this week-Loving me a kick ass Goddess who can defeat the undefeated. She was discussed at my chanting group at the weekend and the idea of her has kept me very motivated-would also love that many hands!


I have fallen in love with Iris Apfel the fashion maven from New York who is in her seventies and a total style legend.She features in the documentary called Iris. If you have netflix go and check it out-inspiring to the max
Oh Iris I love you


On my nightstand this week is the Chrissie Hynde biography "Reckless" her music has been part of my life for a really long time. Will let you know what I think of the whole thing.


I played the Pretenders song "Don't get me wrong" all the time when I first started dating Nicky as it described exactly how I felt-please don't vomit, I'm a romantic fool.

Don't get me wrong
If I'm acting so distracted
I'm thinking about the fireworks
That go off when you smile


Finally the daffodils may not be out in the garden but Nicky brought me a bunch from the green grocers this week and they looked rather fabulous in my Black pug vase-the first flowers to fill my new favourite ornament.


Hope this week is treating you magnificently. Until next time.

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Brand New Limited edition Design  over at  Nicky Rockets


We have a new tshirt available from the shop today "Northern Pirate" Our very first Tee with a back design- It's limited edition, so if you want one, hop on over to www.nickyrockets.com and get yourself one

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